How To Pick-up Girls With Facebook

How To Pick-up Girls With Facebook / Facebook Dating

Unless  you have been living under a rock for the past 5 years, you will more than likely have tested the social networking giant Facebook.com

For many, it is a complete waste of time, for others it is a serious business tool… but can it be used as a dating tool to meet girls?

In the name of science and research I aim to find the answer, and what’s more, I am confident that this experiment is a great way of mastering the basics of marketing, perceived authority, copywriting, and promotion.

If you want to join in at home, I will go through my techniques in stages, so you can follow along at your own pace. You will need the following ingredients:

* A computer

* A free Facebook.com account

* An Internet Connection

* A Camera

* An Inner Devil

Ok, so let’s get started with Stage One…

Niche Research

Like any good business or marketing process, we start with the research. With Facebook this can help save us time, increase our response conversions, and generally increase our chances of success.

Here is my technique…

Make a list of all towns and cities within 15 miles from your home. Then go to Facebook and type them into the search box.

Location is the main criteria, afterall, there is little point in meeting people who live in a cave in Botswana.

So for example, I live near Wilmslow and Alderley Edge, two small, upmarket towns a few minutes from my appartment. Here, you want to look for groups that are associated with things like: Singles, dating, drinking, socialising, and meeting new people.

Here is one I found:

A drinking society… a perfect start to my research.

I also found and joined the following groups:

“Singles In Manchester”

“Prestbury Appreciation Society”

“I’m From Cheshire, Therefore I Have a Higher Social Status Than You”

The “singles in Manchester” is a perfect match, as it combines people who are single, with people nearby.

You want to find at least 3-5 of these groups, and join them all.

TIP: I personally don’t have an issue with this, but if you are a bit embarrassed about people seeing that you have joined these groups, you can either create a fake account, or go to your profile and delete those updates.

Preparing Your Profile

Once you have joined a few groups, it is now time to ensure your Facebook profile is up to scratch.

Most important is your profile photo, like it or not, this is what most people are going to base their decisions on. I generally avoid the camera like the plague, but I managed to find a half-decent photo to use as my profile pic (see below)

dean hunt

The only downside to this photo was the fact that I was wearing a man-bag at the time (yikes).

I can’t stress how important this photo is, if you really don’t want people seeing your image, use a group photo with your friends, or put up a fake photo. If you are serious about this, it may even be worth getting professionally shot photos, you can get a set for under $200 and they can be used in many other areas as well.

Once you have your sexy photo, you need to add some profile information… the key here is to give some details but not too many, and be cheeky or funny, but not too much.

In other words, you want to portray enough to ensure people think you are interesting, but not too much so that they think you are some crazy madman.

With your Movies, Music, and Hobbies, list the main ones, but there is no need to go into great detail.

Ok, you are now set and ready to go… in the next chapter I will explain a method of contacting girls without seeming like a weird creep. I will also share with you some recent examples that have worked well for me.

Note: If you have any friends who use Facebook, send them to this post, the more the merrier.

Dean

  • http://renegadeconservatoryguy.co.uk/ Renegade Conservatory Guy

    This is great advice, but what if you’re married?

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  • http://deanhunt.com Dean Hunt

    Then you probably wont have the time or energy for Facebook ;-)

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  • http://renegadeconservatoryguy.co.uk/ Renegade Conservatory Guy

    Maybe, you could just pass me your cast-offs ;-)

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  • Dirk

    Hey Conservatory Guy, as a married man; you are behind me in the castoff department. Where does the queue form anyway?

    Miss you both,

    Dirk

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  • http://www.affiliatedragon.com David at AffiliateDragon.com

    Hi Dean,

    It’s all well and good you giving these “tips” but we all know your success boils down to you are fecking loaded doing this internet marketing lark and can whisk any “hot chick” you require round the world first class while you attend some seminar or another. Life’s tough at the sharp end of IM, eh? :-)

    David

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  • Dare

    Man I’m the king for online dating, I’m gonna do this too. lol.

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  • http://deanhunt.com Dean Hunt

    Dave,

    Interesting point… one of the areas I am going to test is whether mentioning financial success puts people off.

    Dean

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  • http://www.affiliatedragon.com David at AffiliateDragon.com

    Dean,

    You don’t need to mention it, you just project success with what you do. Merely stating you are in New York, Florida etc giving talks on how to make money online will be enough – I mean, what “normal” person gets to travel the world and influence the lives of others for a living? It also gives you an air of “celebrity” which will be attractive to most women, many of whom aspire to be a “wag” of some sort these days.

    I may have come across a bit tongue in cheek in my initial comment but was being deadly serious…

    David

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  • http://deanhunt.com Dean Hunt

    David,

    Good points, but I want to find techniques that can help everyone, not just me.

    Don’t get me wrong, I am not going to pretend to be some “normal” guy, but at the same time, I am not going to just rely on my lifestyle to make it work.

    Thanks for the advice though.

    Dean

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  • http://www.affiliatedragon.com David at AffiliateDragon.com

    Haha, don’t take advice off me mate :-) I think if you just be yourself you will be beating them off with the proverbial stick.

    It’s a bit of a cliche I know, but merely what you do makes you more interesting, intriguing etc. than the Average Joe who works in the call centre. C’mon, everyone knows internet marketing is the new rock n’ roll!!!

    It will be fascinating to read what you come up with for the “average person” because as we all know, not everyone can be that “interesting”.

    Keep up the good work!

    David

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  • http://www.deanryanmartin.blogspot.com/ survivordean

    This is the contemporary version of flirting. If you can flirt face-to-face, why not online?

    Great tips here and I’ll try this once I get the time to visit Facebook.

    SurvivorDean

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  • http://www.deanryanmartin.blogspot.com/ survivordean

    One more thing, this is also a good strategy to drive traffic back in your site.

    SurvivorDean

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  • http://joshuadenney.com Joshua

    I think David has a crush on someone ;)

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  • chris

    The fact that you are rich and famous is clearly going to help, but I am sure you will find universal techniques that we can learn from.
    Thanks for doing this.

    Chris

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  • http://www.bluejprojects.com Joanne Masterson

    Dean I’d love to help you, as a “big sister.”

    And as your image consultant.

    You’re keen on travel, so how about presenting yourself in front of our lovely Shenandoah Mountains here in the States?

    Here is a quickly Photoshopped image (a few cheeky tweaks — staying as far away from the man-bag as possible — whew I thought you were talking about something ELSE there for a second…)

    I should really travel with you as your personal Facebook photographer, but this will have to do (link here… http://www.bluejprojects.com/img/DeanFixupIMG_2362.jpg)

    You should know it was awfully hard to resist adding devil horns and a Snidely Whiplash moustache…

    Best of luck, Dean….

    Joanne

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  • http://deanhunt.com Dean Hunt

    ooooh, my own personal image consultant… exciting.

    I will add that photo to my profile… coitus here I come ;-) hehe

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  • http://deanhunt.com Dean Hunt

    We should use that same photo and just keep photoshopping it into funny and bizarre scenery. Like on the moon, surfing, skiing etc… hehe.

    Dean

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  • http://www.3xmethod.com nate hopkins

    This is cool Dean and I haven’t seen anything else like it yet. It would be interesting to see how having video clips of yourself on your page affects response and perception.

    Looking forward to watching this.

    Nate

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  • http://deanhunt.com Dean Hunt

    Thanks Nate,

    I think a video of me might just put them all off ;-)

    Hey, could even send some PPC traffic to it. haha.

    Dean

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  • http://LearnAboutRelocation.com Steve

    Interesting experiment Dean.

    You are about to discover that the world is full of hungry women. The muscle between your ears is intensely attractive to them and they will promise (and sometimes deliver) most anything to tap into it.

    Abundant personal experience proves that you can use ANY interactive on-line site for dating.

    I’ve met ladies at on-line poker tables, music download sites, kinky chat rooms, face-book type member sites, internet marketing forums, you name it…..

    Just like in real life you can meet the opposite sex EVERYWHERE. It’s hard not to – they make up 50% of the world’s population.

    If you are ready to flirt there’s always somebody ready to respond. I love to flirt, and most ladies do too. It’s like rolling cheese downhill really..

    The real issue is how do you translate an on-line contact into a relationship. What are the sensible boundaries for that relationship? It’s a whole new world with new rules to discover and learn.

    One of the problems can be that on-line relationships often develop very fast. So fast sometimes that normal critical faculties can get overlooked in the thrill of the chase.

    Also there is the suspense of inhibition in meetings of strangers (especially if not face to face). Very exciting for all concerned, but play with fire at your own risk……….

    Yippeee
    Steve1943 aka Baddie1943

    PS If you are intelligent, amusing, confident, and assertive you can easily get away with age, poverty, ugliness and bad temper. So fess up and be yourself…

    PPS Any comments ladies?

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    i am looking for hot girls

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  • http://www.pickupwomeneasily.com Steve

    Great post, never thought of using facebook to pick up women.. Have you tried plentyoffish.com? its free!

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  • Visitor

    Where’s the next chapter?

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    Seriously awesome site, I can’t wait to see what kind of STDs you get for not prescreening these girls! haha jk!! Enjoy, you’ll find a whole new meaning to the phrase, “there are plenty of fish in the sea”. I know I have.

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  • http://www.beachbeasting.com Jesse

    I’m a real Facebook moron. I have to catch up with the times. I guess it’s my age :)
    .-= Jesse´s last blog ..How to Date Hot Fitness Beach Models Like Amanda Carrier =-.

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    I want a young girls beautiful, sexy,beautiful!

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  • Maxddd

    professional photos for facebook>? r u fucking kidding me

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